So, heres where we are now
You’re right, I’m not happy in the relationship as it is.
You drink too much. Like…my mom didn’t drink as much as you drink in the time before she checked into an inpatient alcohol detox center for a two week stay. If its going to work, you gotta quit. Not like I’ll cut back kinda quit, but quit quit. You’re drinking close to half your daily calories, then complaining about being fat. Duh.
Here’s the thing. I’m at the best I’ve ever been. More stepped up than I’ve ever been, or likely ever will be. Yet, that’s still not good enough. Sorry. I think you’re looking for someone to replace Paul. Someone more flexible, perhaps, but someone like him. I’m not that guy. Never have been, never will be. You could say that you’ll cope, you’ll learn to deal. But you haven’t. And I have no expectation that you would, and no faith that you could just accept that. It would just generate resentment as time went on and you continued to feel like you were carrying the load for everyone, even if, and even when, you’re not. I’m really cross with you for venting to Kari and Melanie Thursday night. (Melanie has a big mouth and made a couple side comments, so that made that very clear to me, even though I don’t think she thought I caught them. That’s why I left on Friday night.
If you’re justified being pissed off at Josh for talking to HIS MOTHER about his relationship problems before talking to Kari about them, I’m damn sure justified about being pissed off with you for talking to Kari and *Melanie* before me.